Idk what happened, but I care less lately whether people think I'm male or female. Maybe it's from working with the little kids so much who just say whatever's on their mind as soon as they think it, lol. This year instead of getting upset, I've been sort of enjoying watching them struggle with it. This year I've been not saying one way or the other and letting them call me by whatever pronouns they want because the little ones do that anyway. "You look like a boy" Yup, kinda. "You look like a girl" Yup, kinda. "Are you a girl or a boy?" I don't know, kind of a little of both I think maybe? And just letting them chew on that for a while.
(that was an actual conversation I had with a kindergartener today lol)